Has it come to this?

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As we grow older, we make friends, lose friends, make enemies or rivals, and generally live our lives the best we can. Losing a friend occurs to me far too often - either we drift apart and go our separate ways, or an issue has popped up that one or both wasn't aware of and couldn't resolve.

As of now, I find myself watching a dear friend - naive though he is - burning down years of friendship over an issue that, frankly, most of my friends and I were quite unaware of. It's frustrating to see it happen, no matter how many times I've seen it happen before.

One would think that as the years go by, you grow more mature, you learn to handle your relationships with your friends and acquaintances with greater care than the year before... but sometimes that just isn't the case.

Every once in awhile, you'll meet someone who doesn't seem willing to go out of his/her comfort zone and see the other side of the story. If a person can't do that, many relationships and friendships just crumble to the ground. And it's hard on everyone affected.

I'd like to say I've done all I could to save this friendship but I don't have the right to make that call as of now...

Time will tell if things will work themselves out or not.

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